How to have a good relationship/marriage, should you stay with your spouse or leave?
People’s hearts are in your hands.
Let me repeat that again, People’s hearts are in your hands. Even a tyrant can be made soft with the power of love.
Every achievement in life requires a minimal amount of effort. For instance, if you want to buy a new car, you have to go all the way to the showroom, do the effort of choosing your car, do your accounting, register the car, etc etc. you can not get anything without putting at least some effort.
“Shifting your paradigm” requires some effort. Change the way you look at your partner and you will start to see things that you haven’t seen before.
Your wife’s/husband’s heart is in your hands. It only takes a little effort from you to understand your partner, to cherish, to listen to, and to take good care of.
I know that in some relationships it is impossible, and no matter how much effort you put, they don’t change. Of course the love should be both sided, but don’t give up on your partner easily. You might be having a bad time and you are ignoring the good things about him/her.
Try this experiment so that you can understand what “People’s hearts are in your hands” means. Go to someone whom you really dislike, do to him/her and act of sincere kindness, you will notice that his/her attitude towards you will change completely. That is the golden rule, to treat people like you want to be treated and in return they will treat you back in the same manner.
All the best.
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